AVOID a fast relationship with my inbox!

Last week I attended a business professionals networking event in my hometown.  The event was extremely well attended and actually turned out to be a lot of fun (I am not saying this just because I was on the planning committee).  I met a lot of great contacts and I caught up with some old connections.

As the week went on, I noticed something happening in my email inbox.  All of a sudden, I was receiving newsletters and email campaigns for the businesses of the new people that I met at the event.  In exchanging cards, other professionals took the liberty of adding me to the their mailing list.

I am sorry, but in my book this is a no-no.  I can appreciate that many businesses want to grow their mailing lists and customer databases, but I feel that someone must sign up to receive email campaigns.  In other words, a person must opt in to get your newsletters and emails blasts.

Too many times, I “like” a facebook business page or hand my card to another biz person, and POOF – their business starts having a relationship with my email inbox.  If not anything else, this is impolite.  Do you have an intimate relationship with someone you just met?

For effective and well-received email marketing, a rapport must be built among the parties involved.

There are a number of ways that you can build a relationship with a customer or another biz professional after initially meeting (virtually or in person):

Proof Is In The Follow Up – You meet another professional or potential client at an event/conference or maybe you realize that you have an amazing new virtual follower…..Send them a personal email or message. Please do not send an automated message, but a quick few lines on how it is great to be acquainted and a compliment on some work of the new contact (a blog you enjoyed, a seminar you loved hearing, a product that you cannot live without).  Adding a compliment means that you have taken the time to get to know the other’s work.

Do Unto Others As You Would Like Done To You –  Make it your business to engage over the next few months with the new contact.  Follow their website, work, and social media stream.  Comment here and there on a post, etc. Perhaps, join the mailing list of your new biz acquaintance?  Role model the type of engagement that you would like to see.

Hand Out Free Samples – If you are still struggling with getting a contact to subscribe, send out a taste.  Just a taste!  Of course, make this sample as personal as possible and state that you are sending out a little sample of what your newsletter is all about AND have a link available to subscribe if the person wants a larger bite.

Just like you may start a new relationship slowly with only a cup of coffee, build a biz relationship in small increments AND it will have a lasting foundation.

If you are anything like me, if I did not ask to be signed up for a particular email campaign, the email ends up in the junk.  Nobody wants their work to land in the junk pile!

I am off to another conference this week, and I will be handing out cards and hoping that it leads to many fabulous relationships based on continued conversation (and not just with my inbox).

Follow my latest adventures at https://backngroovemom.com – Rachel

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